Saturday, July 5, 2008

6wk, bryce and raspberrys, realtor

I am officially 6weeks along today! Today has been a very tiring day. All I've wanted to do was lay in bed and sleep, my tummy hurts. My head hurts, and I feel like the room is spinning at times. I'm trying to drink all tons of water like I'm suppose to, but it makes me want to hurl at times. I really wish the tylenol I took would kick in so my head would stop pounding.

So according to baby gaga, I should be puking my brains out sometime this week..hoping I don't. Hoping this baby takes it easy on me. But who knows.

Had fun yesterday went to Megan's for BBQ. Bryce had a blast playing with Bradley the whole time. When we got home he was ready for bed. Which was awesome except we had loud ass teens who had been drinking at the pool next to our apartment, screaming all night. Then bryce started screaming and freaking out. All he kept saying was it hurt...I had no idea what was hurting him. Til Vance told me that when he changed him at Megan's it was starting to swell up some. Well we went to change him, and there was blood in his pullup and his bottom was broken out all over. His bottom started to break out after eating a raspberry, he never had one til last night. He's doing fine now, as long as he stays dry its not bothering him as bad.

Real estate agent called again this morning. We have til August 26 now, the buyers loan won't be ready to close in til then. Also he said he needed to get something check around the house, forgot what. But its going to cost 500 luckily my real estate agent was like my client is not paying for that, and the buyer said he would. Since the closing won't be done til August, we have to pay insurance on the house all over again. But Bobbi, thats our realtor, said she was going to try to make it the buyers responsibility. Since its pointless for us to put down payment on new insurance for another yr when we only need it for a month. So hopefully the buyer will take care of it himself.

Good news, I'm pretty sure we're going to be ok with the 3 grand. I have found a way to have most of it, and monday I'll find out if we have the last 900 we need. Keeping my fingers crossed! Oh our stimulus check got forward to my moms new place, so she mailed it off to use today. It should be in by tuesday. Be happy when its finally here, annoyed that they sent it to the wrong place when we talk to them a few days ago and they said it was mailed to the Colorado addy.

Well getting off of here, need to find something for dinner that doesn't make me want to hurl from the smell alone.

Thursday, July 3, 2008

Apt. Update.

So today I had my first baby checkup. My due date has changed to Feb. 28th. I had to fill out tons of paperwork, got a glimpse at the labor and delivery floor. By glimpse I mean I was walking to the room I was told to go to and saw someone pushing. She commented on my blood pressure on how it was high for first trimester. I can see some issues coming on that. Had high blood pressure with my boys. Bryce was delivered early for it. Bed rest with Caleb for awhile from it. They took lots of blood, had me do the glucose test already. Never had to do that before 16-20wks before. So lots of running around and starting my pregnancy chart. They gave me a journal that I have to keep up with through out my pregnancy. They work alot diffrent then Dr. Di did when I was with her with the boys pregnancy. Like Dr. Di you get ultrasound before 12wks to get accurate due date for baby. Here they won't give me one til August 15th when I hit my 12wk mark. I don't see my dr again til then either. So 6wks til my next apt. I can't wait to finally see my baby or babies. (you never know, lol) Vance is off that day so he's going to go with me so he can see the baby..probably take the boys. Bryce did good with ultrasounds when I was pregnant with Caleb, calling him a puppy in my tummy. This time Bryce is hoping for a girl, thats what he says when we ask do you want a brother or sister.

Anyways that is the update on baby and me. Well try to update every apt.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

headaches, sore breast, morning sickness...joys of pregnancy

So the last few days I have actually started to feel the joys of pregnancy. Like the fact that I can't seem to eat anything or smell food without having the urge to hurl. I know I have to eat, but the smells make me not want to. Oh I have had the worse headaches ever, tylenol isn't doing anything for it. Plus my boobs have been so sore. Now I'm not sure if its because Caleb is only one, so maybe my boobs haven't completely dried up but they have been leaking like crazy these last few days. Only seems to happen when I'm in public and not expecting it. I can't wait to get past the first trimester. That's the worse to me. I've always gotten morning sickness pretty bad, I mean with the both boys I was hospitalized every other week from dehydration. With Bryce I actually lost 10lbs in 24 hrs from hurling. I mean it got to the point where even water made me hurl. Vance had to rush me to the hospital, I could barely hold my head up to hurl and was crawling to the bathroom. I'm hoping that this baby will take it easy on me, I usually start hurling around 7wks. Right now I'm just nauseas and have only hurled once.

I go to the dr on the 3rd this week for blood work and paperwork. Then they will go ahead and give me a schedule of my apts, can't wait for my first u/s. Ready to see my little peanut already!
I think pregnancy is the only true time that woman don't mind getting a pap. I mean your just so excited your having a baby that you don't care that someone you hardly know is down there.

Another thing is I'm so freaking tired, don't seem to get enough sleep no matter how long I sleep. Plus these last few days have not been fun, Caleb is teething again. He's been up crying from it at all times of the night. I know I need to make sure to get more iron in my diet, I'm anemic and really feel it during pregnancy. I actually start craving peanut butter like crazy just for the iron.

Well need to get off here, the boys are actually tired and ready for bed. Going to try to relax on the couch and maybe even get to bed early. Taking the boys our to finger paint t-shirts then going swimming. Plus Vance has to show me a diffrent gate to get to my apt on thursday since the gate by my house is closed due to road work.

Monday, June 30, 2008

feel like walls are closing in on us.

Ugh, can we just sell the freaking house without anymore fucking issues. I mean seriously, I'm ready to get rid of it. So that we can save 750 a month and use it for something else. *rips hair out*
So I was up all night with Caleb that vance let me sleep in, except the real estate agent called to let us know the attorney did the title search. And found out the the fucking water system people put a lean on the house. Meaning they have to get paid off when the house sells, usually using profit that you make. Well we're not making any profit hints why we have to pay taxes out of our pocket. So now we have to come up with 3,100 by the 30th when the deal closes. Or we can get sued and end up letting the guy live there for free while paying his mortgage for the next 30yrs. Then Vance will lose his clearence and go to mass. We DON'T want that. So yea, we're like where the fuck are we going to get that. Vance is working on getting help from Navy relief. He is waiting for them to get back to him on that, also trying the air force aid here too. I pray that we are able to come up with the money. *sighs* I'm so nervous right now. Just ready to get rid of the house already. Rent and mortgage killing us.

Anyone know where we can get that much money is such little time? :o(

Sunday, June 29, 2008

5 wks!




The changes to your growing embryo are not quite as drastic this week as they've been in the last few weeks. Growth is now largely focused on their little head, which is starting to develop much more rapidly than the rest of their tiny body. This is because their amazing brain is undergoing some very crucial and rapid development in order to effectively regulate their heart rate, blood circulation, and other vital functions. As for the rest of their miniature body, what were simple limb buds last week are limb flippers this week and the tail is more expressed. Amazingly, within a mere five weeks your little miracle is already developing the rudimentary forms of their liver, pancreas, lungs, stomach and nasal pits while their little heart is already increasing its circulation. Your baby is now a whopping 4-6mm in length.

real estate agent

So today I am officially 5wks along in my pregnancy. :o) My apt is in a few more days, which I'm excited for. Going to try to scheldule my apts around vance scheldule if they will work with me on it. If not then they'll have to get over the whole your kids can't come with you crap. What else am I going to do with them? Exactly!

Lets see what else our stimulus check doesn't seem to want to come in. Lady at the office was kind of a bitch to me. My real estate agent called saying I would need all of it this month for closing cost on my house coming up. And since I can't risk not being able to pay my closing cost that means it all has to go to the bank to wait til she calls for it in the next wk or so. I really need to get rid of my house so that we can make it. Paying mortgage then apartment rent here is not helping. Plus I have all our other bills, insurance, cable, phone, net, etc. So yea no way I can risk not giving her it all now. Don't you love waking up at 6 here, 8 her time to hear this? I didn't but I'll live. Glad she called and gave us the heads up, the house will finally be out of our hands by the 30th it will be the new owners. All the fees will be paid, ours is closing cost. But at least my mortgage will be gone! :o) Which I'm so excited about.

So as for the boys bunk beds they'll have to wait a little longer, but not much longer. Maybe a few wks, no biggie. Oh I was playing on the net, when I found this site that made really cute shirts for baby, toddler and preschoolers. Going to order some shirts of their for the boys, and some for the baby when we find out girl or boy. Hopefully girl, I want a little girl so bad. Can you tell?

I need to get out of the house been kind of hiding out this week. Been stressed out, so I'm laying around watching t.v. taking it easy. Plus I'm already feeling nauseas from certain foods or smells. But going to try to go out in the next few days get active more in my moms group next week. :o)

Hmmm.. I forgot what else I was going to write on here. Oh well I can always write again anothe time.